by Anthony Eldridge-Rogers in

As a skills based professional job, coaching at all levels is best developed through practice. Working with people is not something that can be developed as a thinking process based on knowledge only. Knowing theories and being able to compare different approaches in your mind can inform understanding of clients’ situations, but it can never take the place of the vital skills that are needed. Coaching skills are developed out of practice, so it follows that practice is a must for any coach. But it’s all about how you practice

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by Anthony Eldridge-Rogers in

One of the real challenges most people who want change face is actually getting change to happen and stay happening. Most of us a good at getting started, the tough part is keeping it up and making it something that does not absorb all our energy and grind to a halt. This is especially a challenge when people are primarily motivated to change through fear or anxiety (which if they are presenting a problem is usually the case ). No one wants to stay anxious for long and certainly making

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by Anthony Eldridge-Rogers in

In the process of becoming a coach, one of the biggest learnings is around the use of language.Words and language are the primary ways we coaches, counsellors, and therapists communicate with our clients. And like the way that the media express themselves, there is the question of whether our words are biased, neutral or manipulative.Most of us who have spent time getting trained and have a programme of supervision will be on top of this. But what can happen is that how we show up with our clients is not

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