Self esteem has always eventually become a consciously talked about topic with all my clients. I cannot recall a time when the idea of how a person values themselves and their abilities has not come up. It is a tricky issue though. Self esteem runs intertwined with how we think not just about ourselves but about our relationships, our society and the meaning of our lives. It can often be oversimplified. Self esteem seen as the must have centre from which a good life will flow. Or good feelings will